“Take your attention off the thorns
and turn it to the flowers in the garden,
and forget the scorpions
when you look at the stars.”
(Iliya Dahir Abu Madi)
Kampung Lebak Soto. Bogor, 27 August 2014 |
This time I want to tell you about a photograph, taken yet in a kampung but urban ones, in the city of Bogor, near Jakarta.
No
greenery, rice fields and rural life this time; but the story of a photo that I
particularly love, and which I also mentioned in my book Sweet Light about the “Dark Side”.
In that
chapter, the protagonist was an Indian girl from a wonderful photograph by
Ferdinando Scianna, taken in Benares in 1997. In those lines I tried to express
the healing power that children have on me, so much so that I named them my
photographic exhibitions and chapters of my books.
In those
lines I mentioned the girl from Bogor, for some similarities with that of
Scianna, among which the most important was that of the contrast between the
beauty of the girl and the poor and dirty surrounding: like a
flower that blooms in the garbage.
Well,
this photo has its own story, and I want to tell it to you.
Ferdinando Scianna. “Benares” Uttar Pradesh, India, 1997 |
I often
happened to take photographic trips to Indonesia with my friends, for kampung
and cities. That month we went to Bogor, and photographing through the alleys
of the neighborhood I entered this small street where some children played in
front of a house.
What
struck me was that it was a home of women, of all ages, from newborn to the
deaf old woman. Then the big daughters and their little daughters, all sitting
on the patio of the house, between walls and peeling columns and heaps of
rubbish on the street, with the children playing in pajamas as is normal in
Indonesia.
Kampung Lebak Soto. Bogor, 2 August 2014 |
I took
many photos that day, and one of them was part of a photographic exhibition
with workshops in August of the same year, in Jakarta, called: “Capture the
Beauty - Spread the Love”.
It was
the portrait of one of those children, with an expression that seemed to wander
between shyness, anger, melancholy and that touch of wildness that absorbed the
atmosphere of the place.
The fact
is that, once the exhibition was over, the curators of the exhibition offered
me the opportunity to take only one of the photos on display, and I chose that
one.
Indeed, from the first moment I was asked which photograph I wanted, I have not had the slightest doubt, because seeing that framed girl I immediately thought of giving it to her mother.
Photographs are gift. And the gift is a very important fact.
Anyone
who has studied anthropology knows that one of the fundamental texts is that of
Marcel Mauss of 1923, in which – comparing some ethnographic research – he
affirms that the exchange of goods is one of the most common and universal ways
to create human relationships.
When we
photograph someone, we bring their identity with us, so
sometimes we have to give back somehow, to re-balance everything.
So three
weeks after that first meeting I returned with some friends, photographers and
curators of my exhibition to give that picture to the mother.
It was
in that circumstance that an event happened that I often tell during my
workshops, which has to do with the power of photography.
Actually, that moment was very touching for
me. The mother was incredulous and so happy for the
gift, and I was talking to the women and meanwhile taking more
photos.
The
little girl in the framed portrait was clinging to the mother's leg who never
stopped looking at the photograph. Then I said goodbye and went away with my
friends, but realizing that she was still motionless with the frame in her hand
I stopped to spy from around the corner of the street.
Then I
saw some women coming who lived in the same street, perhaps intimidated first
by our presence. The mother proudly showed them that photograph and these women
began to caress the image, all as like enchanted, with the girl in flesh and
blood under them, between the legs of the mother.
Kampung Lebak Soto. Bogor, 27 August 2014 |
A few
years later I bought a splendid book, The Empty Mirror, also by Ferdinando Scianna, the same as
the photo of the Benares girl, almost closing a circle.
In that
book, to explain our relationship with photography and even more with the image
in relation to our identity, Scianna quotes a story told by McLuhan in “Understanding
media: the extension of man” (1964):
A friend
meets a lady who has a beautiful baby in a wheelchair, approaches her and says:
“Oh, what a beautiful baby you have!” And the mother proudly replies: “And this
is nothing: you haven't seen him in photo!”
And all
this simply because that face was printed and placed in a frame, it had turned
into something special. Outside that house, the peeling wall and the rubbish at
the edges of the dark, narrow road.
Art had
redeemed their simple lives, in their minds.
Kampung Lebak Soto. Bogor, 27 August 2014 |
And
right on the steps of that same street she was sitting, one of the daughters of
that family of all women, intent on playing with the orange cap, always
serious, never smiling. But capable of radiating a particular light, from
inside, maybe precisely because of the contrast of shades and surfaces between her skin, the white pajamas
and the darkness of the degradation and dirt of the street.
Like the Indian girl of Scianna, standing, proud and upright, with her eyes on us, to remind us of the magical power that only children have.
Here
too, once again quoting one of the most beautiful lines of a song by Fabrizio
De Andrè, which is the perfect description in poetry of many similar
situations:
“Nothing grows from diamonds ,
but flowers are grown from manure.”
(Fabrizio De André, “Via del Campo”)
Kampung Lebak Soto. Bogor, 2 August 2014 |
Marcel Mauss: “Essay on the gift.
Form and reason for exchange in archaic societies” (Einaudi, 2002)
Ferdinando Scianna: “The empty
mirror - Photography, identity and memory” (Laterza Editions, 2014)
First I really love the first photo. Comel.
ReplyDeleteBut he looks sad. Then also the other photos. Masih comel.
Today, I cry again! Ampun.
I felt so touched read the story. I can feel her feeling deeply.
I was so impressed about your writing. I can imagine clear in my mind.
Thanks for sharing.
Love it
Thanks a lot, writing like a photo 😊
DeleteNow I can see the power of a piece of photography.
ReplyDeleteOften my eyes only capture the beauty of the photo but not the meaning.
In this article, you have explained the meaning so well, deep, and details.
I learned something new. Thanks for sharing..
Thanks, a photo could be a book 😊
DeleteThe most amazing part of children's magical thinking is...their belief that they can make life be anything they want it to be.
ReplyDeleteAnd their greatest fear is that they are not good enough to be loved. They want parents not friends.
Therefore, keep them well for they are the trust given by God...as well as the determinants of our future.
Agree 🙏
DeleteEvery photo has a story behind and there are so much we can learn, if we want.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing. Love this! 😍
Yes, betoi! So do yours also!
DeleteBaikkkkk...! 😁😁😁😁
DeleteDunia kanak-kanak ialah dunia yang istimewa dan tersendiri. Alam sekeliling tidak mampu mengganggu selagi ada ibu di sisi.
ReplyDeleteNice article.Nice photos. Congrat.
After post on mother must post on children 😊
DeleteThe combination of words and visual appears to help learning especially when the picture are related to the textual information...good you can do it ..so we move in to your writing and foto
ReplyDeleteThanks ...
Really thanks ☺️☺️
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